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Monday, January 14th, 2008
Triangular Theory of Love
So yeah, in my confusion and mixture of emotions I decided to start googling words and I came across the word love. I wanted to see the many definitions of it. In doing so, I came across this web page on Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love
It was some interesting stuff I was looking at.Basically in this theory, love comes down to intimacy, passion, and commitment. I like this theory. It helps sort my feelings out a lot. I don't think I've had "consummate love" yet, and I think deep down that I want it. On the other hand, I don't want that kind of love yet. *sigh* I'm still confused. Commitment is sort of a problem for me at this time. I can be in a committed relationship, but why? I don't know how to explain my views on commitment. I guess I related commitment to marriage too much? WILL.NOT.SETTLE.DOWN! (hahaha) Blah I've had intimacy, passion and commitment..... maybe I've had what I was looking for but lost it........ orrrrrrr I haven't truly found that special person yet.
1. I don't want to break hearts or get my heart broken.
2. I can't and won't try to control my feelings anymore
3. I don't want to be a hoe or anything but I do like to have options. I feel like if I'm with someone that I'm stuck with that person. That sounds mean.... but it's sort of true.
4. I dislike limits or the feeling of being confined or restricted. Not saying I want to be a swinger or have an open relationship, even though I wouldn't automatically turn the offer down, I don't know what I want right now.
*sigh* This blog wasn't suppose to turn into what it has turned into. Oh well I'll continue.
I want....
Someone who I can trust and someone who trusts me. I want to be able to tell that special someone anything and feel like They won't make fun of me, laugh at me or repeat it to someone else. If I go somewhere without that special someone, I want that person to understand that I need my alone time and not to assume that I'm cheating or make illogical or absurd accusations. I want someone who is patient enough to truly get to know me BEFORE they want sex. Patience is a great attribute about someone. I'm more than willing to admit that i can be a pain, annoying or other negative things but I want someone who is going to stand by me instead of giving up or losing hope. I make mistakes, everyone does. Speaking of making mistakes, I want someone who is more than willing to admit their mistakes and accept mines.I don't want someone who acts like they are better than other people to try to put others down to make themselves look better. I hate that shit. Also, I like confidence, but not cocky, laid back, but not lazy, loving, but not obsessive, affectionate, but not constantly horny, spontaneous, but not 100% unplanned. I like people with a good balance about themselves. Good personality, many common interests, and compatible. So yeah, I'm not looking for someone but if I happen to find someone like that then who knows!
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