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Slitting Wrists Is it me or do people assume because someone slits there wrists there sycopaths? I mean I wasn't totally depressed just my mum was being a bitch so I tried cutting my self and i just about brought my self to do it. I mean you must be in a really bad state is you result to that. I just want to respect u all hu hav been through it cos i no it is hard! But u can pull through! My m8 pulled through i haven't cut my self since xxx
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I contemplated it but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I think there are other, better ways of dealing with stuff than self mutilation. But good on you and your mate! | CoNe_LoVeR_666 |
Thanks i just wanted to offer support to those struggling with the problem, to tell them life isn't over. xx | xxRnB_Biatchxx |
alot of people judge people who 'cut'..i mean i know this one person who did do it for attention (coz she went around broadcasting it all over the school) but i also know other people who are seriously down and hav their reasons for doing it. i think its really wrong for people to judge people who self harm... these people need some help, not rejection. its quite common and sometimes it wont lead to anything 'big' but it can leave you with scars and sometimes (if it gets really bad) can result in suicide.. so yeah.. i think that some people think people who slit their wrists are phsycopaths... but its wrong | hotel_bella_muerte |
People do assume you're a psychopath I've been cutting myself for about a year now and there are scars on my wrist and people always give me funny looks when they see them but its just my way of dealing with things. Good on you for stopping! I've been trying to stop and went to counselling and everything but nothing seems to help. Thanks for not thinking I'm crazy its nice to know someone cares | FlameRamirez |
I've been cutting myself for 3 years now, i dont do it as often as i used to coz i use other things to help me cope, but i get wierd looks as well if people see my scars and people treat me differently as if i'm going to jump out at them and cut them. but peple have tried to help me but it dosent work, i had councilling and as soon as the session had finished i tried to throw myself off the top of a building, so basically i dont think anyone or anything is going to stop me | Bad_Kittie |
Well all i hope is that the people who are cutting themselves pull through the bad times, look to the good things in the future xxx Good luck | xxRnB_Biatchxx |
Lets just hope that in about 5/10 years you'll hopefully look back and think, why the hell was i doing that.
But my view is that everyday you'l see these scars for the rest of your life and be reminded constantly of bad times.
In bad times Iv just tried to take it out on other things rather than myself. Pillows, walls, floor, other people (i mean not intending to hurt them that is).
Me i just try and get down to a gig, n get involved, and have a gud time at the same time.
Remember you're not alone. | fatally_yours |
hmmm sounding like a proper stereotypical 'emo' thread this! :P | fatally_yours |
i have been cutting myself since i was ten so thats four years and the only reason i stopped was because my sister found out and we talked about it for ages then she sed she would tell me mum if i did it again i still do it sometimes but i am more careful wen i do and i would neva do it for attention because its pathetic if thats why you do it and i only do it if that is my only option. | lilygoth |
I considered doing it. But just couldn't. Its great that you got over the cutting period, must have been hard. | iman_mcr |
Urgh, I went and did it even after I said I never would... Things just got so messed and it was the only way I'd feel any better but I've promised myself I'm not going to do it again. | CoNe_LoVeR_666 |
I used to cut my amrs/wrists and my sides. My sister saw my sides one day when my pants were really low or seomthing and I tried telling her I fell in a rose bush. She didn't belive me so I finally admitted it and then begged her not to tell my mom. Even though I knew she would. Then the exact same day like an hour later my mom saw my hands and I told her it was the cat. But I hated lying to her about something so serious so when she asked if "I was sure it was the cat" I told her no and it all went from there. I went to get help, and even though I continued it after that I stopped for good now. I know now that I am never going to do that again, and I'm glad. What I'm not glad about are a few scars. But yeah, there are definatley better ways of handling things, it just takes time for people to let that sink in I guess. | XratedRomance |
i used to cut my arms and legs (never wrists) but then after like a year and a few 100 cuts later i was like what the fuck am i doing??????? it bullshit to cut yourself cuz it doesnt help solve your probloms | blackrain13 |
and as for suicide.......yeah tried it 3 times.......decided not to at the last minute | blackrain13 |
This topic brings back painful memories so I'm going to avoid it... lol. | CoNe_LoVeR_666 |
cutting..it's a deep topic to be discussing on such an open forum..but i mean..i guess it does help some people to talk about..i used to..i mean..im not goin gto say i quit..cause, that would be lying..& i hate liars...& besides, i know that if i got in a pissy enough mood, i would do it again. i tried suicide once./..not by slitting my wrists...tried drinking bleach actually....but i purged it back up ((weak stomache)) so..yeah..wow..maybe openly talking about this does help..hhmmm.. | xX_Emo_Kisses_Xx |
My friend recently began slitting their wrists again...
Whats the best advice anyone ever gave to you? | BulletOrTheChapstick |
well at my school were having a huge riot because my friends and I keep cutting ourselves... but some ~poser-wannabe-needy-attention bitches~ are doing it to. the reason for our riot is because life sucks and somtimes you need a distraction and others want to look cool... i hav been (cutting-slitting) sober for a month!! | xXLETGOXx |
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